Erti CINTA hakiki

CINTA = Couple? Salah.

CINTA = Bersama ke Syurga? Betul.

Ada banyak persepsi, pengertian, pandangan, serta hujah yang diberikan oleh ramai orang tentang CINTA.

Bila diperkatakan tentang kerja rumah, ada yang merungut, kata "tu bukan masalah aku", "tu kerja adik-adik aku", "tu kerja perempuan", dan sebagainya.

Tapi bila sebut tentang CINTA, semua orang bagaikan profesor yang ada PhD CINTA. Awesome jiddan semua orang!

Mana taknya. CINTA itu berkaitan dengan semua orang, dan CINTA sangat dekat dengan hati.

Demi CINTA, semua sanggup berikan apa sahaja.

Demi CINTA, semua sanggup berkorban.

Maka, sebelum kita mengungkapkan CINTA kepada sesiapa, mari kita ketahui makna sebenar CINTA.

"Bersama ke Syurga"

Itu lah maksudnya yang sebenar, credits to saudara Hilal Asyraf.

Maka, marilah kita telusuri maksud itu.

Kalau betul CINTA, apa yang kita buat?

Pegang tangan, dating, minum dari satu straw, hasilkan anak luar nikah, bergayut sampai dua jam?

Apakah maksud CINTA itu ialah, "Saya sayang awak. Jadi, saya nak campak awak masuk api Neraka."

*masa baca statement ini, saya serius gelak guling-guling.

Pastikan bila kita nak sebut "Saya sayang awak." kita dah set dalam minda, "Saya sayang awak, dan saya akan pastikan awak masuk Syurga."

Bersama kita menCINTAi. Tak semestinya antara lelaki dan perempuan. BFF pun boleh.

Sebab kita nak jumpa orang yang kita CINTA itu di Syurga. Kan?

Dua Daging

Nabi Muhammad s.a.w pernah bersabda (mafhumnya = pemahamannya):
"Di dalam badan manusia ini ada seketul daging, jika baik daging itu, maka baiklah badannya. Jika buruk daging itu, maka buruklah juga badannya. Itulah hati."

Kata-kata ahli ilmuan yang berkenaan satu lagi daging dalam badan manusia pula (mafhumnya):
"Lidah itu boleh menyelamatkanmu dan boleh membinasakanmu."
"Lidah itu lebih tajam daripada bilah pedang."

Pepatah Melayu pun ada mengungkapkan (mafhumnya):
"Terlajak perahu, masih boleh diundur lagi. Terlajak kata, buruk padahnya."

Maka, kaitan kedua-dua daging ini, sepertimana yang disebut oleh saudara Pahrol Mohd Juoi (mafhumnya):
"Perkara yang keluar daripada mulut seseorang, menggambarkan bagaimana keadaan hatinya."

Nouman Ali Khan: Watch Your Tongue

Kesimpulannya, bentuklah hatimu, maka keseluruhan anggotamu (lidah, tangan, kaki, dll.) akan ikut sama acuan hatimu itu.

Ouch! Don't you feel the pain?

Don't wait till you feel the pain to make a move.

When someone advised you to start your effort towards success, DO IT!!!

Trust me, I have felt (and still am feeling) the pain of getting low results in going forward in life.

Lets get things right starting from the BEGINNING people!!!

Enjoy Life, y'all!!

To enjoy life. How?

I believe that enjoyment comes from satisfaction.

Hence, when you want to enjoy your holidays for example, do ensure that you must have something that you need to achieve by the end of the day.
eg. I wanna finish 10 pages of my Maths exercise book.

When you've completed it, don't you feel satisfied? Its like, wohooo!! I've done it!!

That's when you REALLY TRULY enjoy life.

Plus, to enjoy life is when you can still remember the moment even when it's a long donkey years ago.

Because it is memorable.

It makes you enjoy.

Thus, again, if you can't manage an empty slot of your time, don't ask for it.

Seriously Obnoxious

I've been patient enough to watch and observe the Malaysian politicians doing their job in trying to improve our nation, but as we all are aware of, every patience have their limits. And my limits are already bypassed.
Two significant issues have I put forth here.
One, is the Islamic Fashion Festival held lately in Kuala Lumpur. At first glance, it sounded like somebody has done a good job at selling Islamic fashion to the world, but in fact it is totally the opposite.
What do you get of this?

Does this fashion seem Islamic to you? Honestly, what does Islam say about clothes?
Refer to these verses to get a clearer view of what Islam has underlined for us about hijab:

• Surah Al-A'raf ayat 26 & 31-32
• Surah al-Ahzab ayat 59
• Surah An-Nur ayat 31
• Surah An-Nur ayat 60

This blog can also help clearing things up.
http://ruhhuldaie.blogspot.com/2010/10/etika-pemakaian-menurut-islam-dan-soal.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+berjalanmenujukebenaran+%28Berjalan+Menuju+Kebenaran%29

Hopefully our future leaders are better than this.

Another issue is when I see the headline of today's news; "Bukti Usaha Kerajaan", and it goes on saying what a good job the government has done to improvise our lives.
I do like the fact that they are doing their job as leaders, but what gets to my nerves is the title, which sounds like they want to prove to us that they are doing their work.
The question is, why prove when it is already your job? Has someone said you're not doing anything for the country and they want the proof?
It sounded so unprofessional if this is how they answer this question.

My opinion; we need wiser and more patient leaders in the future, not to mention pious too. Therefore, teachers. Do your best in nurturing these future leaders. And parents, you need to nurture your children to be our 'qualified' authority inheritors.

Whoa! That's life??

"I was just about to rest. Can't you give me a break??"
I turned around to see someone I recognized telling off my friend. Apparently work is still at hand but to him, he has done his part.

The thing about life is, there will be a time when people without a very strong goal and objectives will ask and complain; "What is worth living for?"

Too many answers.

Filthy rich life in the future.

Big house.

Expensive luxurious cars.

A lovely wife.

Success in business or studies or....whatever achievable.

The question is, are these objectives permanent? They're merely short termed objectives. If we really want to have a good solid black-and-white reason as to why do I need to continue living?, then we got to really think of it, and observe everything.

This is what I think and what I believe.

The best kind of person are those who give benefit to others, not excluding any life forms.

Why is this so?

Because that is where peace comes from.

That is where global happiness comes from.

That is where OUR happiness come from.

When we strive to help others gain their happiness, and we achieved it, then satisfaction comes. Why?
Because we succeeded in making someone happy.

When we are satisfied, won't we be happy as well?

Besides, who can stay happy if others around him are filled with gloom and grief?

Therefore, the best reason to live I see, is to help others in their lives, to gain happiness. We are one, after all.

What Drives You?

When you're here (GMi) and you claimed you want to head to Germany because you want to study abroad/overseas, therefore you strive hard to achieve it.
Then once you're there in Germany, what next?
I mean, you've got what you wanted which is study abroad and that is what drives you to achieve your dream with hardwork. And I assume here, that once you're there, you will be empty of 'drive' or motivation because your dream is already achieved ie it is a short distanced dream.
If you say you want to be an engineer, thus going to Germany is the way, then your objective is stronger, more solid and you're clearer with your effort and mission.

And that concludes the post today; having a stronger objective for what you will do in the future.
As for me, I've got my own objective, my BIG mission in pursuing debate. Not just as my passion-filler, but for the better of the future generation.

All da best in planning and executing your future!
And yeah, if you need my help, readers, in doing so, I'm all open to help out. ;D